I applied for a job. The other candidate was a solo mother of 3. 

Needed and deserved the income more than me.

Wake up, says everyone, this is not your call, she your enemy so to say.

I aint no Marvel superhero, to single-handedly save the world. 

I commit to the real world and act accordingly. I get the job.

Coherence is naive. I'm free to not be coherent. I still wish a planet where none of this would be a thing.